How To Develop A Mentality That Will Get You A Step Ahead In Life

How To Develop A Mentality That Will Get You A Step Ahead In Life 

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"Life's battles don't always go to the stronger or faster man. But soon or late the men who wins is the MEN WHO THINKS HE CAN " - Napoleon Hill. 

I discovered this mentality after going through a disastrous spell in my life. From being broke to having bad spells of health, to being dumped, and just being disorganized with no sense of purpose. Believe me i have seen it all, and so in an attempt to change i began reading every motivational book i could get my hands on.  Still there was no significant change to be seen, until i realized that they all preach the same gospel. "If you want it, go and get it" this is the gospel many people pay their hard earned money to know and apply in their lives. Now i give you the earnest truth on how to develop a mentality that can actually shift any one's life from (0 to a 100). 

Understand Energy 

the universe is governed by energy, all planes of existence evolve around a force. Some call this Force the Universe or a kinetic force of some unknown life form. If you want to attract positive things in your life and have a positive frequency, you need to have dominant positive thoughts. Negative thoughts attract negative circumstances that guarantee negative outcomes. Always think positive thoughts. 

Use Affirmations 

Affirmations are statements that are repeated aloud or inwardly to replace undesired thinking patterns. I personally have an affirmation on my mobile device. It serves as excellent reminder.g patterns as thoughts repeated get picked up by the subconscious mind, than it becomes habitual thinking that really does program an individuals mentality. Affirmations are slated to boost confidence. Remember, create one that best fits your preferences, as long as it is positive and motivational. 

I am going to win, no matter what, regardless ! I will win. *

More than a champion, I am the best. *

I will stop when i am done, not when i am tired. *

Here's a famous one by former boxing heavy champion Muhammad Ali. "I am the greatest off all time". * 

Be your own competition 

Theodore Roosevelt was right when he stated that comparison is the thief of all joy.  You will never be mentally at peace with yourself if you compare yourself to others. Have your own standards, focus on your dreams the most, do not follow others.  When you are your own competition you get the satisfaction of self improvement, there lies peace in this. 

Embrace challenges 

When you embrace challenges, they no longer difficulties or problems instead you see them as opportunities to test yourself beyond your zone of comfort. For instance, we all at some point have had that those smart kids in class who could not wait for tests or exams. Whilst other pupils would stress about examinations. Notice the difference in perception between the two, the smart kids see this as an opportunity to showcase their intellectuality,  albeit the other students would see those tests and examination as stressful and dreadful tasks and therefore fail them. When you embrace a challenge a solution is already created. 

Envision your objectives 

Many successful people are guilty of this. They create pictures in their minds of them achieving a specific goal, before even ever physically achieving it. Everyday set aside ten minutes to picture yourself successful, achieving your designated goals. And it is only a matter of time before your actions coerce with your desires. 

Bonus note 

This is a beginners guide towards developing a mentality that will put will mentality put you ahead in life. The mind is everything,  your dominant thoughts govern your life. VyoCers have a fruitful week. As always i leave you with this " To change your reality, you must first change your mentality". Daniel Alley

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How To Become A Winner, And Effectively Change Your Life

            How To Become A Winner, And Effectively Change your Life                                                                                                 
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" Winning isn't getting ahead of others. It's about getting ahead of yourself "- Roggers Staurd

 



Ever wondered how that particular person you look up too is always achieving their goals?. Well wonder no more, if you reading this you can expect to discover the secrete towards becoming the winner that you truly are and effectively change your life. I cannot lie to you and sell instantaneous results, or a magical product that can change your life. But this article is a sincere guide towards becoming epic. 

Make the decision to change

First things first, before i begin you need to make a decision to change. People that they are in control of the choices they make in their lives. Whilst in actuality are not,decision exists within all of us, you have to make the decision that from this day forth that you are a winner. And you will the rest of your life as a victor. 


Winners win because they expect to win. How is this you ask ?, they have made it up in their minds that they are going to win, and indeed they do win. This is the power of decision.


Change Your Mindset 

" There is nothing as powerful as a changed mind " - TD Jake's. In order to develop a winners mentality you need to have a changed mindset. The way in which you see and perceive yourself has to change, develop a positive image of yourself.  Always have positive thoughts about yourself, this creates a paradigm shift from the negative thought processes you have become accustomed to all your life. 


 A negative thought process occurs when you believe the negative things you have been told. An example of this is believing you ugly because you have been told you ugly. 


Set up specific Goals 

A goal is something you want to archive within any given time frame. Now to identify your goals you need to be very specific and write them down. Write down your short term goals where you can see them constantly, to keep you focused. Regardless of how small the goal is, it could be finishing an assignment on time, aiming to complete a specific task. 


Be Committed 


Imagine how much more successful a lot of people would be if they fully invested themselves to a cause or assignment until it is completed. Winners are committed to whatever it is that they do, they have what we call the virtue of dedication. 


Be responsible 

Winners are credible, and they take full responsibility of their lives.  There are things that happen to us that we cannot control, but (90 %) of whatever happens to us we can control.  If you want to see a sign that someone is a loser ?, notice how they have an alibi to justify why they have failed. The following are examples of alibis. 

- I am unsuccessful because i grew up with no parents. 
- I can't lose weight  because i am lazy
- How do you expect me to become a winner, when i come from a poor background. 
-  I want to start a business but i can't because i don't have money. 


Winners create solutions, not excuses. 

                                        




Take risks 

You have to be willing to free yourself from fear, and develop the habit of taking risks. Do you know why you have been procrastinating all this time along ?, it is because of fear.  In the end you will regret not acting in the first place. So as (Nike) puts it, "Just do it" . 


Embrace Failure

see your losses as lessons, this will completely change your approach to your failures and short falls. Most importantly it equips you with a winners mindset.  


Work Hard

I wish i could lie to you, but honestly there is no replacement for hard work. Not even talent, how many talented people do you know that are not were they want to be in life ?. Winners work hard for their achievements, blood, sweat, and tears. There is no other way around it.  





Be eager to learn 

In a world were knowledge is power, winners try to improve their knowledge one way or the other. Read a book, newspaper, develop a new skill. The main aim is to challenge yourself. 




Have faith in yourself

Winners have great belief in their abilities, they do not doubt themselves. It is important that you believe in your own abilities.  Ask yourself this ?, would Micheal Jackson be the greatest entertainer of the 20th Century had he doubted himself ?. No, faith is the starting point of all achievement. 



Bonus Note 


Stay focused, people don't just randomly archive their goals. It takes sacrifice to live the life you desire, now make these sacrifices.  As always i leave you with this " If you have expectations of others, especially negative ones. Than the outcome will never change " -Micheal Jordan. 










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Why You Need To Stop Watching TV, and Following Everything That's On Social Media

Why You Need To Stop Watching TV, and Following Everything That's On Social Media                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            VyoCLifestyle   
                               
                                                                                                                                                                                      

"the more television you watch the more you see people who seem richer than you. Research shows that you will than overestimate  the income of real people, and underestimate the value of your own life. so the more television you watch, the more dissatisfied with your life you become ".  Richard O'connor. 

Since you are reading this blog, you would have come to know that since the history of mankind, societies and tribes have been governed by the ruthless elite. who are the ruthless elite?, it is the people who govern society whether through indirect influence or direct rule. the elite control what you read and hear about on the news, they control what you watch on your tv screens, the ads you see, and to a great extend the ruthless elite influence the way humans leave. 

On Television 

look at the time people spend in a day watching their favourite dramas, sopies, shows on TV. On average it is (5 to 7 hours) watching TV daily, now if you calculate that, it equals to (30 to 40) hours a week watching TV programs. This time can be well spent aiding your development to better improve your income and wealth, knowledge, health, and relationships.

 
when you watch television you are consuming information designated to you by the elite. You basically running away from your reality in hopes that television will provide a virtual alternative which you aspire to actually live. 

Television promotes shitty values such as popular culture, consumer culture, and news that is mostly related to celebrities and gossip. For instance look the news coverage we receive, stories of Nikki Minaj engaging in a fight with fellow artist Cardi B. How is such news coverage relevant to anyone?  there is nothing worse than  fetishzing celebrities. 

Video Games 

as a teenager i would spent (4 to 6 hours) daily playing video games. imagine how much time i wasted. Playing FIFA is the least productive thing you can do with your time. Doing such is for boys and kids, you should invest this time building towards your future. 

Social Media 

About (45%) of people globally are addicted to social media and their cell phones. Be aware of the time women spend on Instagram daily.

 The time spent on Twitter daily following celebrities and your favorite pages. 

Facebook is a tool that should be used for advertising only.

 
Whatsapp is highly recommended because it is a vital tool of communication. 

Social Media forces you to compete with peoples false representation of themselves. Therefore creating a negative self perception and image of yourself cause you are constantly in competition.

  
Five minutes on YouTube turns to five hours of watching recommended content that only brainwashes you. 

The best exception for social media is business and promoting yourself as a brand. 

Sports 

Watching other men and women exercise and sweat to get paid. While you waste your valuable time being a spectator or cheerleader.

 If you spend (5 to 10 hours) a week watching sports you can invest this time into exercising and developing the body you have always wanted. 

Sports is enjoyable in moderation, with friends or occasionally going out. But anything else other than that it needs to be sacrificed. 

Bonus Note

People don't recognize that TV is not an entertainment medium, it is a tool that best dellivers consumer products to people if you want the life you really want. than sacrificing useless utopia like TV Will do you and your self esteem genuine good. Attempt limiting the amount of time you spend on social media platforms on a daily basis and you much better your state of mind will feel. i leave you with this "I'm trying to free your mind Neo. But i can only show you the door, you are the one that has to walk through it"-Mopheus .

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The VyoCLifestyle Guide To Dating And Relationships

The VyoCLifestyle Guide To Dating And Relationships

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      when it comes to dating, just like everything else in life there are rules that govern human interactions. to succeed in the dating game it is important you know these rules and what dating style suits you best. with my personal experience the dating i recommend the most is casual dating, you can identify which one fits your lifestyle best.  

   if you like are most guys, who want to have happy and healthy relations with women but the results aren't coming than this guide is definitely for you. when i began dating in my late teen years, i didn't know what to expect, and how to handle women, how to get women, i began to read online about dating and relationships. if you manage your expectations on what to expect from a relationship and understand the rules of the game than you will experience the same level of success as i have with women. 

this guideline outlines the types of dating and how to be successful using each type. 

Types of dating : Monogamous relationships 

Monogamy is the most serious form of dating, and possibly the most intimate. this is when two people only date each other. 

How to get into a monogamous relationship? 

before i even tackle how to get into a monogamous engagement, identify if monogamy best suits you.  monogamy suits you if your intentions are to start a family or build a solid future within the relationship.  most women want monogamous relationships because commitment is more valuable than sex. first find the right partner, a women who will respect you and understand you as a men. usually these type of women are religious,  had a good upbringing, they were raised well.  

this requires what i like to call day game. it is basically meeting women during the day, whether at church, school, at your workplace, at the mall or in your social circle. the trick is simply to approach a woman, greet and make short conversation. conversation starters may include, "hi, how are you, i know this may seem awkward but you have beautiful eye brows". this shows two things, that you are genuinely interested in her and that you are not fearfully imposing yourself on her.  now secondly you take her number, and arrange a date. remember the purpose of taking her number is to arrange a date. 

in monogamy the purpose of a date is to get to know her, not to have sex with her on the first date. this is extremely important if you want to avoid toxic women. things to do to make sure the date is a success, be confident, smile and be light hearted. this will allow her to be comfortable around you. in a monogamous relationship, it usually takes two or more dates before the relationship can commence before there can be any form of sexual relations. 

                                                  Rules of Engagement 

to maintain a monogamous relationship you must be committed. this usually means you must invest your time, and you don't see other people outside of the relationship. 

see her at least three times a week, this shows  and illustrates your level of commitment to her. 

                                               Casual Dating : Polygamy 

casual dating is when you date for the purposes of sex and simply having casual fun with multiple partners. usually this form of dating is bombasted by society because it is an alternative lifestyle. these are the man that society term famously as "fuckboys, playboys, players, casanova". 

                                       How to get into a casual relationship

this is a bit startling because casual relationships are simply about sex and having fun.  to become a successful player in casual dating that has multiple women at his disposal, you need to approach as many women as you can. well at the ones you are sexually interested in because it is a numbers game. now here we use what i like to call online game . online game is approaching online, most notably dating sites. sites such as Tinder and Badoo, POF these best fit the catalogue of casual dating, and they guarantee you your best chance of success if your intentions are to have sex only. 

The best way to get into a casual relationship is to develop enough confidence to approach women on a daily. Embrace rejection, cause at some point you will get rejected. Embrace it because it is the cost of playing the game.  secondly work on your style, personality, as your aim is to attract women and not to keep them. having a good sense of style will do wonders for your social profile and will give you a better chance of getting laid, cause thats your main aim in a casual relationship. 

                                                     Rules of Engagement 

when it comes to casual dating the only rule is protect yourself. always use protection if you want to avoid contracting any STD's. 

Do not lie.  just because your aim is just to have sex, it does not imply you should lie to get what you want. be honest with the women you with, they should know from the get go that you do not intend on having a serious relationship. this shows that you are honourable enough to be honest with her. it shows that you respect her as a woman. 

                                                            Bonus Note 

Whatever form of dating suites you, go for it. But know that there are necessary rules you have to follow to be successful with each. you follow the rules and surely you will win. trust me, i am am a testament of that. i leave you with this "Be true to the game, and the game will be true to you".  

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